Update.....a small one

Things are finally shaping up it seems to a workable agreement that our family can live with.  Everyone should be proud and happy.  From the way it looks however, some people will be left in the dust by making bad choices early on.  And for that, I am not even sorry.  We are doing the best we can with what we have in this moment, and no one should expect more from us-not even ourselves.  Decisions have been made that some people had no business knowing, nor was it even asked from us.  Toes have been stepped on, and hurtful things have been said that may never be able to cover up as the years go by.  And why?  Selfishness, stupidity?  I am not really sure, I cannot say.  It comes from a good place, I am sure deep down-but on the surface it seems to be done out of how something may look-or how someone else s perceives a situation should be handled when they are not even in the situation themselves.  It has been an eye-opening experience for sure.  Not just for me, but for my husband and my children who are very aware of what's going on and what lines have been drawn by other people who have no right to draw any lines to start with.  The battle is over, but the war rages on.
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